I was the stand-in parent for today, since my younger brother’s school was having its meeting sessions with parents, and it just so happened that both couldn’t make it today.
I am glad that his school actually holds these sessions: I remembered Mom was asked only once a year back in my own school, and she would always ask (nicer word than nag) about my stacks of homework. At that time, I had established a personal vow to finish my homework in the empty classroom, right after classes, finish my revisions, then return home. Of course, within this time I also made sure to visit the computer room to cure my addiction to Netscape’s wonderland (please don’t let Mom know I confessed on my blog!), which usually meant that I reached home around 5 to 6 pm.
Unfortunately, I did not have any real semi-formal outfit to change into, so after rummaging through the cupboard for a full 3 seconds, I picked out a plain white t-shirt with some simple graphics, and that pair of jeans last worn a full 3 weeks ago. I hoped that at least my turn-out looked reasonable enough to be taken seriously.
True to my suspicions, the form teacher was unapproving of the choice of the stand-in parent. I probably looked more like a heavily eye-bagged teenager with my tucked out t-shirt than someone meeting a teacher. I hoped I didn’t break any parent-teacher meeting protocol in the process.
Teacher was really kind and friendly. She handled everything without breaking the sweat, and repeated the same advice for probably the umpteenth time that afternoon without missing a beat. There was barely even a sigh when I asked some questions to hide my ignorance.
I was impressed. Of course you got impressed when you are not the one being processed by the system. I didn’t think about my teachers too much while I was under their tutelage. They used to take a long time to correct assignments, and explained about their work load. I accepted that answer, but as an excuse. Yet, for the first time, sitting in front of my brother’s teacher on a non-school day, I admired her professionalism and perseverance. Teaching is probably one of the few professions that definitely require a genuine love and passion, in order to trod undaunted in the face of mounting paperwork, stressful meetings, assignment targets, examinations, compulsory curricular activities, meetings with anxious parents - all these on top and above balancing the needs of different kids, keep said kids out of trouble, and be their counseller. Did I mention they also have to teaching?
To my brother’s teacher, if you happen to come across this blog post: thank you so much for being a teacher - I am extremely humbled by your sacrifice (I guess Mom would have been a better person to talk to, but she’s busy working); hopefully I didn’t dispirited you too much during our 7-minute chat. I hoped that you got a bit of a break here, since the parents before me actually hogged you for the better part of 20 minutes each on a Saturday afternoon!
Teachers rulez.
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